Hi! Well this is a topic I have been wanting to talk about with somebody for ages. I feel that there are many people who romantice certain relationship or fantasize about a special character, that is indeed, someone who wouldn't do you any good. I wanted to talk about all kinds of character, like the male lead from Ookami shoujo to kuro Ouji for example (i think that's the name of the anime). It was the first shoujo that I saw and I remember that I was ompletely loving it until he broke her phone. The people who fantasize and wants to have someone like the 'perfect' Kyoya: please, think about if you really need to put up with someone as stupid and mean as him. Besides, it's not just him that makes the relationship the more toxic, Erika plays a big role in it too. She's very immature and most of the times her decisions where the worst ones. I mean, I know is just entertainment but at the same time, it worries me hearing people wanting to have a boyfriend like that. This is just my opinion though, and I would like to know what you think about this and what other characters or relationships you think are unhealthy. Sorry for my english, I'm not really a native speaker
I actually love toxic/abusive relationships genre if presented appropriately. But if it is glorified or anything, the I would not be able to enjoy it, no matter how cute the fluffy moments are. It is indeed somewhat disturbing when people root for the clearly toxic relationship and justify someone when they would clearly be in the wrong in real life.
I can think of one relationship that was presented as 'good' yet I found abusive/toxic: http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_man_like_you/?ZfCF - a guy like you - Idk about anyone else, but I find both parties in the relationship to be abusive and toxic. The seme forces himself on the uke countless times, heir relationship was almost bordeline abusive as there was sexual assault and verbal abuse. Shows no sign of good character development either.. I dropped it due to the clearly glorified abusive behaviour from him. There was also a lack of communication, which is a very important factor for a working/healthy relationship. uke seldom gave consent and it is still not okay even if he "gave in" half way as that would still technically be sexual assault in the first place. The fault of the toxic relationship was not just Jinha, as Siwon does play a part in that, but Jinha's behaviour was more noticable for me. Very possessive, manipulative, jealous and selfish.
Hi! Well this is a topic I have been wanting to talk about with somebody for ages. I feel that there are many people who romantice certain relationship or fantasize about a special character, that is indeed, someone who wouldn't do you any good. I wanted to talk about all kinds of character, like the male lead from Ookami shoujo to kuro Ouji for example (i think that's the name of the anime). It was the first shoujo that I saw and I remember that I was ompletely loving it until he broke her phone. The people who fantasize and wants to have someone like the 'perfect' Kyoya: please, think about if you really need to put up with someone as stupid and mean as him. Besides, it's not just him that makes the relationship the more toxic, Erika plays a big role in it too. She's very immature and most of the times her decisions where the worst ones. I mean, I know is just entertainment but at the same time, it worries me hearing people wanting to have a boyfriend like that.
This is just my opinion though, and I would like to know what you think about this and what other characters or relationships you think are unhealthy.
Sorry for my english, I'm not really a native speaker
Hit me up on discord if you wanna talk about it- ImagineWagons #1286
I actually love toxic/abusive relationships genre if presented appropriately. But if it is glorified or anything, the I would not be able to enjoy it, no matter how cute the fluffy moments are. It is indeed somewhat disturbing when people root for the clearly toxic relationship and justify someone when they would clearly be in the wrong in real life.
I can think of one relationship that was presented as 'good' yet I found abusive/toxic:
http://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_man_like_you/?ZfCF
- a guy like you -
Idk about anyone else, but I find both parties in the relationship to be abusive and toxic.
The seme forces himself on the uke countless times, heir relationship was almost bordeline abusive as there was sexual assault and verbal abuse. Shows no sign of good character development either.. I dropped it due to the clearly glorified abusive behaviour from him. There was also a lack of communication, which is a very important factor for a working/healthy relationship. uke seldom gave consent and it is still not okay even if he "gave in" half way as that would still technically be sexual assault in the first place. The fault of the toxic relationship was not just Jinha, as Siwon does play a part in that, but Jinha's behaviour was more noticable for me. Very possessive, manipulative, jealous and selfish.