Eldraco

Maybe his first girlfriend used him like a dildo nonstop and he got stuck like that, but I doubt we will have a backstory as to why he is like that

I don’t know what relationships you have with others but normal people don’t use each other without the other knowing for their own gain. Juheon has been used his whole life by others so when he found out his lover only approached him to use him for inspiration, he had every right to be hurt, mad and leave. That’s SUCH a shitty thing to do to someone, so it doesn’t mean jack if Dohu ended up gaining real feelings for him later on. His intent was to use him and that’s it.

I think you're the exception here dawg. Plus "using" isn't inherently a bad thing either. Just thinking, "I feel happy when I'm with (Person A) I should see them more often," is using them. Its not that deep, everyone has a reason for approaching you. Its what they do after thats a biggie, and while I do agree Juheon has right to he upset. I don't this situation is as black and white as you're making it out to be.

I get why juheon was mad, but like. Idk if the author just left most of it out but I dont even remember dohu writing anything about juheon except fricken hashtags lmfao. Yes he approached him to use him as inspiration, but it’s obvious once they started hanging out like past the movie date that dohu wasn’t hanging out with him because he wanted to use him, he just liked being with him. Especially after they had sex, it makes no sense for him to do all of this just to use him, the only reasoning could be that he’s autistic/neurodivergent and thinks differently from other people like juheon, but that’s never directly addressed besides saying ‘you don’t even understand emotions.’ Which, okay, if you believe that, then why the hell are you mad at him? How is it his fault if he can’t understand emotions the same way everyone else does? That just means you need to communicate even more clearly. Which juheon didn’t let him do (although dohu also didn’t go out of his way either, so I believe they’re both to blame)

Dude dohu had 20chapter to tell him the truth the ml literally broke down crying waiting for a sorry and he could do that

Yes Dohu ended up liking juheon, and it wasn’t about getting inspo anymore but that’s literally the 2nd big problem with dohu. After dohu gained real feelings, he decided not to tell juheon why he initially approached him and his reasoning was that juheon would never find out anyway so why be truthful about it and complicate things. Juheon is constantly getting used by people so he has trust issues, but he trusted Dohu and dohu knew that and he still chose not to tell the truth. He could have come clean and explained how his feelings are genuine now but he didn’t. He CHOSE not to, not even when juheon was crying and asking him for an explanation. That’s the problem and why juheon has a right to feel so betrayed. Especially since they were lovers which would obviously hurt more.

Im not making it black and white tho. Situations vary based on context, so I’m explaining why in this case juheon had the right to be so upset and why it actually was a big deal. Imagine getting used by people constantly so you never have a genuine friendship/relationship and then you finally meet someone who you decide to trust and you start dating, and then you find out they actually approached you for the same reason everyone else did- to get something from you. You would be livid. And yeah dohu genuinely ended up liking juheon, but the other problem is that he decided not to tell him the truth, or properly explain what happened even after juheon found out and was begging him to. So literally what is juheon supposed to think after that?