Manga fan since 2001
1st manga= Inuyasha (sister found a vol in the hallway of our elementary school)
Anime fan since 2002
1st Anime= Inuyasha (Grandma bought us a DVD of Inuyasha for Christmas, I remember being so shocked that they had "movies" on our manga. Super excited )
Yaoi fan since 2003
1st Yaoi= Desire by Kazumi Maki , Honami Yukine
(Found it while browsing BORDERS bookstore)
Older seme at 42, younger uke at 28 makes a 14 year age gap.
Also ukes "crush" is 30.