Travel To A Different Country

i'm totally with you on going for it!! it's a great opportunity, missing it will be really unfortunate. as for your question, best advice i can give is to steel yourself and communicate. even if she screams or gets angry, maintain calmness and talk in a level headed manner. ask her what her concerns are in detail, and assure her on all her worries......   reply
22 10,2023
Okay so as a part of my contract i have the opportunity to volunteer for 3 month in Asia with an ngo in 3 months (im thinking of Japan,Malaysia,Indonesia or Phillipines) which is gonna be an amazing experience to add in my resumé to apply for a master degree in fall 2024.
But I come from a traditional family (where girls don't usually leave the house if they're not married) AND my mom is the most anxious,scaredy cat I know.

To me there is no doubt that I cannot let this opportunity go, I'm gonna regret it or worse resent my mom. Also lol i knew she wouldn't agree right away and that now since i told her the news it's gonna be really tense everytime i'll mention it cuz common I know it's a mother's job to worry.
But my problem is that i'm a non-confrotational ppl pleaser and I lack a lot of confidence. Everytime I go against her wish i feel physically bad and stress even tho her wishes don't align with mine. And on top of that I second my decisions a lot bcz I don't trust myself.
I know I want to go, do you guys have any advice on how to not loose all resolve the minute my mom will talk (or scream) me out of going abroad ?
22 10,2023
Yellow 17 07,2021
I just googled it so dont take it to heart yet, better if you do some more detailed research Norway ofers free education for international students, but the living expences are really high In finland they only ask for money if you take english clases And in panama is also free for all, including international students There's also brasil but you ha......   1 reply
17 07,2021
I'm indian too. And I'm going through the same thing as you. You can try singapore too! I have no idea what I'm gonna do after 12th but here's some things I'm keeping in mind for applying to US colleges: 1. Extra curriculars matter a lot. So focus on doing something like that. A person with 90% marks with extra curriculars has a greater chance in......   1 reply
17 07,2021
Come study in Australia! We have some great uni’s you can go to their websites and see about scholarships etc. We are pretty close with our Indian neighbours and have loads of English courses (multicultural nation with many immigrants and students). You still have a few years to improve your confidence with English. Either way, I suggest visitin......   2 reply
17 07,2021
Fart
17 07,2021
U.S outta the list is good,it’s expensive af here, all you will be left with is debt to pay back to the govt. for the rest of your life, maybe Canada, I heard a lot of people going for it, it’s nicer   reply
17 07,2021
carrotpie 17 07,2021
you can email colleges or text international student communities like facebook groups and be open with your concerns and confusions, if they reply, i'm sure you'll get some, you'll be able to learn and understand more how the system or their system works   reply
17 07,2021
yoyo 17 07,2021
yeah europe is a good option. america and australia too expensive and difficult, i know this because i live in australia my indonesian friend just got back to indonesia after his mum finished her studies in australia. its also rly hard to become a permanent citizen here. idk abt europe but i think they might accept sat scores. its not mandatory tha......   1 reply
17 07,2021
its more like i...... introduced them to it   reply
17 07,2021
Bun
17 07,2021
I have 4 of em and ig im prob about to have one more cuz one of my friends wanna get into bl but im not too sure if they'll like it or not   reply
17 07,2021

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