Looking For Yaoi Manga

I need to find this BL were this dude's wife wanted a threesome and so she told the him to find a guy. And like he asked his gay bestie? But then the gay bestie touched the husband during the three-way, and the wife liked watching? And way later, the wife kidnaps the husband and pays some guy to rape him? ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

So I came to ask you guys a question cuz
you're smart right? Anyways I was looking to see if anyone knows any bls and gls with reincarnation? I find them really good most of the time but I barely find gems like those . So help please

is it just me or has anyone else been searching for new yaois/bls that are on the longer end/more emotionally investing to no avail? like things are really drying up lately... i have not had any luck with finding some reread worthy short djs or rom-commy manhwas ;( like i want the sexy stuff without it being too serious, rapey, or depressing, but still have it being interesting and engaging..

some of the stuff i like:
sign, bj alex, all about lust, oh my assistant, ameiro paradox (or just check out this list: http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/660335/ )

also i get pretty picky (and i trust everyone else as viewers) and stick to reading ones that are 9.0+! let me know if you guys happen to have any suggestions :)

p.s. pls pls pls be sure that they arent any psychological/realy dramatic ones (not feeling it rn)