Fetishes And Kinks

I do believe that yaoi can have tendencies to fetishize gay men- some yaois more than others, but I don’t think it’s any more fetishized/sexualized than straight relationships. I think it’s when people get ahead of themselves and start to ship and bother real people that it becomes a problem. If they push their ship onto real people(Bothering two people who don’t show any signs they are in a relationship), then that’s the actual fetishization of gay men; I don’t think enjoying yaoi necessarily means that you fetishize them. Some yaoi actually portray realistic relationships, while others are just porn. There’s nothing wrong with porn- there’s straight and lesbian porn so I don’t see how yaoi fetishizes it more than the others. As long as you keep fiction away from real life, I don’t think It’s “disgusting” to like reading yaoi.

When the argument that yaoi fetishizes gay men comes up, it’s often by a person who’s never read a yaoi manga(a good one at least) so I’m curious to see others’ opinions on this. Do you think yaoi fetishizes gay men? If you are a gay man yourself, does it bother you that women read and sometimes get off to yaoi manga?

So I have a voice fetish, I want to be talked down to by someone with a nice voice dammit! Massive face con. Basically you can do anything if you are good-looking. A hair(?) fetish. Like I just love playing with hair(not body hair) and I adore people/characters with long hair. i have a hand fetish as well. I could spend a long time playing with someone's hands if they are nice and not get bored. Also I love soft bodies! I'm interested in BDSM. I just want to experiment everything. I'm a rope bunny. For someone who hasn't had sex is this weird?(〜￣△￣)〜

For me, kinks that fall into this category is deeper voices, arms that look kinda "veiny" ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fYX1BcgWMqw is a good example ), guys with watches on their forearms, girls with thighs that could probably crush your head, guys with (especially visible) adam's apples, facial masks, and baseball caps. I just find all of these sexy for some reason, not entirely sure why.. （￣へ￣）