As a person who is an aromantic, you described the feeling perfectly. I have been in many romantic relationships, none of them being as satisfying as I’d like them to be. After the excitement and curiosity fades, I find myself uninterested. Reading about it in books and watching them in movies was a lot more entertaining to me. When I was beginn......   reply
21 02,2021
Only if they do something really bad, like if I give them a whooping they ain't gonna act up again. Again, only if what they do is really bad lmaooo I ain't no abuser   reply
21 02,2021
I mean ill hit my kid if they need one. I've seen so many adults who act like little children and roll all over the road because they didnt get their own way, and most of the time its because they weren't disciplined when they were younger, they were spoilt little kids. Sometimes I feel like taking my shoes off in public and flying it out to not......   reply
21 02,2021
Hello everyone. This is going to be long, so I'm sorry. I always labeled myself as asexual and biromantic, but since many years I'm wondering if I might be aromantic as well. I had relationships, but unfortunately they were toxic because my girlfriends were bitches. I however don't think it entirely influenced me negatively, even if surely in the past it was easier for me to fall in love and trust love.

I wanna clarify one detail about myself. I'm an adult, so life is difficult between bills, work, rent, life problems, etc. I really lack of time, and when I have time I prefer to dedicate it to myself or my closest friends, but at the same time I dream of finding love once and for all. Also no, I don't want marriage or children, if that's a relevant detail.

Let's explain this: I DO want a romantic relationship, I DO like to fantasize about love and partners but...I find myself completely... uninterested when it comes to actually building it up in real life. To put it simple: it seems beautiful as long as it's in my head, but as soon as I start meeting people (it's the same whether they're men or women) I end up struggling with time or interest management. It's so hard to find time for other people, hang out with them, text them, call them, especially when it's a "new relationship". I really find myself struggling a lot, and I basically "lose interest". It doesn't help the fact that I'm asexual, so I only hang out with non sexual people ^^" (it's like fishing in a puddle, we're just few unfortunately).

I also noticed that I tend to value much more friendship than relationships in real life. Like a best friend for me comes first than a girlfriend. At this point my ideal life it's probably being with a stable job and having lots of friends :/.

I already read everything I could about aromantic people, and I even recently talked to a friend of mine. He thinks he's aromantic, so he gave me his opinion about it. But I'd like to hear more stories, so please...share with me how you understood you were aromantic! It would be helpful to clear my mind about the matter.
20 02,2021
It's okay :D as a certified alien I don't claim humans either but my parents abandoned me here so I'm stuck with y'all   reply
20 02,2021
I for some reason can't handle Yaois, I just stick with plot and fluff based stories, it's like whenever I give a Yaoi a chance, they always end up having a sex scene in the first 5 chapters, and my god it's so damn annoying but then again, to be honest, I do get a bit annoyed when there's no proper kiss scene or make out scene after like 50 chapte......   reply
20 02,2021
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let's no dj for banana fish..   reply
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I'm not a fujo but I like yaoi/shounen ai,I also think that its kinda okay BUT there are people who go too far! I really hate it when I'm in a shounen ai manga and see people wanting s*x scenes like it's shounen ai pls it's "SHOUNEN AI" I hate seeing people wanting to change that to a full smut manga. Even if I like yaoi I agree that people shouldn......   reply
20 02,2021
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20 02,2021
this is called fethishization   reply
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