Had A Weird Person Crush On U

So basically, in ninth grade i used to hang out with these people who liked anime and stuff, after i came to them as pansexual they all accepted me and we had this conversation about the lgbtq community, there was this one guy who didnt actively support the lgbtq community but he didnt really mind if people had another sexuality other than being heterosexual but he wasnt like, yknow what i mean right? So this other person, they told him that he was a homophobic/ transphobic just bcuz.of that

Trans/homophobic = hating people who are Transgender and like the another gender, right?

so basically, say i wasnt part of the lqbtq community and i didnt support them actively would you hate me and call me homophobic? But even though i dont care if people are homosexual? Thats what i said to the person but they told me that im in the community so they couldnt imagine it.

Would you hate someone and call them homophobic even if they dont care if people are gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, queer etc. ?

Because im really confused some people are making people who dont support lqbtq homophobic and other stuff and ganging up on them and even if they were (which they shouldnt because everyone is their own person) just call them a hypocrite (because they can be straight why cant we have other sexualities) and leave.

Someone please tell me your opinion and correct me if im wrong, sorry for misleading you by the title of you wanted a sugarbebe xxxx

love, maloogaloo