def an uke,,,, i feel like it would be fun if the seme just teases you omg,, i think i have a thing for that im crying   reply
22 02,2021
Actually Japanese women were labeled "rotten girl" because men thought woman reading lgbt content were unfit for marriage and "rotten", also I'm pretty sure Japanese women reclaimed it by making a play on the word or just changing the meaning completely to just "woman who enjoys bl." The orginal term was used by misogynistic/homophobic men and had ......   1 reply
22 02,2021
Don't really like the idea of people deciding whether they fetishize or not. Most people here think they're in the clear but couldn't be further from it, and I can't say I'm a fan of inadvertently validating people's false notions of what behavior is or isn't acceptable. And while that's not why fujoshi meant "rotten girl", I see no reason why it ......   1 reply
22 02,2021
fujoshi 腐女子 means rotten girl, its self deprecating in the first place, the whole concept of being a fujoshi is dehumanizing and fetishizing mlm/nblm "i'm a fujo but i dont fet-" don't call yourself a fujoshi then.

if ur wlw/nblw u should know how it feels to be fetishized and dehumanized since we are dehumanized and boiled down to sex by straight men all the time. you are doing the same thing to mlm/nblm. if ur straight then u have even less of a reason, you should really learn how to understand how nblm/mlm feel.

if u still can't understand how harmful it is then look it up

if ur gonna post some whack ass meme and be like "idc im gonna do what i want" don't bother commenting
22 02,2021
Im sorry about the "seggs" im used to saying that word, im just uncomfortable saying sex.   reply
21 02,2021
atp i'm tired, watch gay porn if you want but just shut up about it , same from straight men   1 reply
21 02,2021
Those people you said are fetishizing bl, they keep making excuse like that so they had moral justification to keep reading it. Most, don't ever remember their name and calling the Chara as just Uke and seme. apparently, they don't remember the charas name because they read too many mangas but they sure remember the charas sex position lol. since t......   reply
21 02,2021
i-i’m using this as an opportunity to promote my psychological list http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/1029454/ it has no BL   reply
21 02,2021
okay but i wont have dumbass 14 year olds not understanding what i mean by fetishising, and saying "gAy MeN aReNt My FeTiSh, I jUsT lIkE bL" if their behaviour clearly indicates otherwise. some stupid people dont understand the goddamn word and base their arguments off of technicalities rather than the sentiments of the majority of queer people. li......   reply
21 02,2021
are we still talking about this #-.-)   reply
21 02,2021

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