jin 27 03,2026
if they're giving bs reasons, they might most likely just be worried for u because they may love u so much but they just dont wanna say that (i have no idea how your parents r like but usually this would be the case) which could make them seem like theyre "overprotective" so it seems like theyre controlling u. and gurl i can relate. in my case, th......   reply
27 03,2026
best advice i could give is to traumatize them lol. to better word it out, rebel by just literally doing whatever u want until they get tired or accept the fact that u can't be controlled as much. i mean sure it definitely won't be easy and there would be lots of downs if u do this at the start, but it was worth it when i did this ngl. on the brigh......   reply
27 03,2026
kaela 27 03,2026
It could be that they are worried for you. It’s sad to say this but being a girl is different from being a boy. We don’t have the luxury of not having to worry about getting cat-called, harassed, or even sexually assaulted at least once a day.   reply
27 03,2026
BlueBun
27 03,2026
honestly i relate to this so much i always have to begged them to let me go to those outings that my circle of friends would always go but they wouldn't let me go over some small reasons which is pretty annoying and honestly just feels like im not enjoying life enough and just feel like im being lock up in a cage   1 reply
27 03,2026
Ilay Riegrow
27 03,2026
So as a girl who always went home back from school,then frm clg then from uni...I finally got a job.

I joined this job with a grp of 15 members all of us being freshers..in 15 there r few boys when compared to girls..
One of the girls got a visa and she is gng to fly to another country in the 1st week of April. So the 15 planned to throw a party for her in a rented villa including a night stay. All the other girls parents were okay but NOT mine.

When I tried to discuss with them as to y they r not okay for me to go and stay out at night...they give all bullshit reasons...I don't understand y do girls have to CONVINCE their parents to go out either for one or a trip for 3 days?? I mean wts up with convincing?? Can't they understand? I gave the details and was honest with them n wt did I get in return?? ( ̄へ ̄)
27 03,2026
Wooloo
18 03,2026
I just want to say, I’ve been in this type of situation before. If you want to intervene you better be committed. This isn’t going to be easy like let’s talk about this over tea type of situation, especially if it’s a helicopter parent as intense as you’re describing. If you’re going to be the person who steps up to say something you be......   reply
18 03,2026
She's a little over protective for her sake. That child is doomed for failures and bullying. I'm a parent of two beautiful children and I let them explore and learn their lessons. It's apart of life and making them grow up, making sure they're prepared for the world and that their mama will always be here for them.   1 reply
18 03,2026
I think you really should talk to your sister. kids that have that kind of helicopter parents tends to Learn to be good liars, most of the time won't fully trust or like the parent and have little to no friends to have a good childhood memory with. I'm not saying to let her do or go whatever she wants, but let her have a bit of fun at times with ot......   reply
18 03,2026
Hikyooeon 18 03,2026
Yeah and the outcomes are negative. Doing that to your child will make them very vulnerable and or too dependant to become independent, basically they won't know anything about the real world if that keeps happening. 16yo is an age where someone starts to make their own decisions cus that's the age of someone soon to go to college. Dropping them at......   reply
18 03,2026
YoBologna
18 03,2026
Honestly, I think u should. Like even noo birthday parties??? I understand being strict about sleepovers and such, but I feel like not even allowing her to go to birthday parties is insane... Respectfully ofc.   reply
18 03,2026

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