Consent can be withdrawn at anytime, however, how long would it be before you can no longer take it back?

In my mind, anything before the activity begins or while the activity is processing, then yes. Before you start, you may say no, and if the other person continues, that is rape. While doing it, you can feel wrong, say no, and if the other person still continues, that is rape. However, I've heard horror stories where gals will consent to sexual activity, regret immediately after or days to weeks to months later, withdraw their consent and call it rape.

Imo if you already consented and completed the activity happily (only to regret after it's done), it's no longer rape. Because how was the person you slept with supposed to know you're gonna regret doing it, esp after it's already done? If you regret a decision, it's on you, not the person who took part in the activity to mind read whether you'll regret it or not.
12 09,2023
YES IT IS, WHY IS THAT EVEN A QUESTION.   reply
12 09,2023
i think it really depends because a lot of times its grooming adjacent and that is seriously dangerous. This topic needs to be more naunced in terms of what age the boy was and when the feelings developed. If the boy was under the age of 20 when the feelings occured it is seriously questionable but the most important thing is the MCs actual views a......   2 reply
12 09,2023
i feel betrayed i was expecting some cute couple only to be met of a groomed mc falling for the groomer   reply
12 09,2023
I read an Omegaverse like that once. It was so sad coz the adult recognised his fated mate but they were still a child. So he approached the mom, told her, and asked to be part of the boys life. He kept everything very appropriate and loved the boy, but never let on how difficult it was for him. And he had a lot of joy too, so it was bittersweet. ......   3 reply
12 09,2023
i don't know if it is or not but its weird as fuck tho   reply
12 09,2023
I would say.. it's grooming adjacent. It's definitely predatory and weird. ESPECIALLY if they watched them grow up that's way more disgusting than if they met sometimes as child and adult and dated years later (which is still a bit weird). I mean, look at Jesse Rutherford and Billie Eillish, that kinda shit makes me sick. Anyone who defends such re......   1 reply
12 09,2023
That probably depends on the situation? Outsiders ' perspective will probably see it that way but idk..(correct me if im wrong pls ;-;) i think that's more on pseudo incest, either way thats weird as hell   reply
12 09,2023
Let's ask danmei fans with shizun kink shall we? ( I mean as a fan of SVSSS is it grooming guys? For those who also have read the novel, it's not right? RIGHT!!!) Side note: The animation is shit, where is bingmei's curly hair? Why can't they treat our fandom the way they treat Heaven's official blessings?   2 reply
12 09,2023
Can you call it grooming in romance stories, where they met when the mc is an Adult and the guy theyre supposed to be in a relationship later on in the story was a child.. and they watched him grow up? like basically raising him and shit but later on develops feelings for him when he's a full grown adult? does that make sense like.. Imagine raising a kid and watching him grow up? how do you feel about it when you read a story involving that plot?
12 09,2023

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