Not Having A Boyfriend

Ugly is just a state of mind and who you are personally. There is this one woman who is considered the most unattractive woman ever, and she found love. Why? Because she is so beautiful on the inside that it flows through. You are 22 and don't be impatient regarding a romantic relationship ever. These things happen when you least expect it, an......   2 reply

It's not weird. Lots of people these days wait to get into a relationship by choice. But it sounds like you want to be in a relationship? I'm sure you're not ugly and looks won't matter in a mature relationship anyway.   reply

I'm 43. I have never been in a romantic relationship. And I'm perfectly fine with it. So, there's that.   reply

Honestly, I always felt a bit pressured about having a partner, others made me feel like the weirdo for never having been in a relationship. My first instance of this was when I was barely 15 and just starting high school. I'm now 18 and just started college and sometimes still feel that pressure, it sucks, but you have to just realize that everyon......   reply

I personally have a boyfriend currently, best thing for me right now. Cuddles make me feel safe and warm and kissing is fun. It’s like having a best friend but like 1000% more better and more intense.   1 reply

My sister is going through a bad divorce right now, and I can say with certainty the greatest perk of all is being your own person. Being independent, making decisions by yourself and for yourself. This doesn't apply to all relationships of course, but it is easy to become codependent that after a while you forget who you are without the other pers......   1 reply

I'm going to agree with many other posters here and say: free time. As someone with very limited free-time, how I choose to spend it is very important to me. If I want to laze all day in my pajamas and read manga online, then I can. If I want to binge watch a show for ten hours, I can. If I want to do jack shit, then that's what I do.   reply

SO MUCH PERKS! So much time to do the stuff I always wanted to do, no need to reply his/her texts, no need to deal with his/her jealousy or having stupid fights because of misunderstandings. I don't need to give anyone satisfaction of where I'm going or when I'm going back. I can wear whatever I want without having to hear that I'm not "feminine" (......   reply

Nothing wrong with you. Everyone has their pace and the time of doing stuff. Just because most people do it, doesn't mean you have to. Just take your time :) and there's no such thing as shit personality, everyone has something interesting that they have no idea they have. And the concept of "beautiful" is socially crafted. And plus, everyone has a......   1 reply

Sweetie, the way is getting professional help. We here can talk allmighty all we want, but nothing compares to someone who has deep knowledge and scientific background to actually help you effectively. In my opinion, it's nothing wrong with you, it's just how society works this century. We think we need to be the same as the others to fit in, but t......   1 reply