Not Having A Boyfriend

I don’t think your dislike of speaking in public situations has major ties to your self doubt as a lot of people struggle with this. And perhaps you were over analysing what your boyfriend was sending you, he may have just been trying to act like how he thinks a boyfriend should act like in the movies, send loving cheesy texts of love and affecti......   reply

Why do you think so little of yourself? Living like this just sounds suffocating. He sent you words of affection? Well, he may even mean every single word he wrote or said to you. Every person is different and has an own strong point, that attracts others. People like him, who (at least it sounds like it) are quite popular with others, are able to......   reply

I don't know about the situation, so I am going to talk about what I know about my previous relationships. I really don't know if it applys to you at all. Sometimes people make you feel bad while making it seem as if they are trying to make you feel good. It might be the way they say it or other things they say that don't seem related. Some people ......   reply

I"ve been married for 14 years now and we have been together for about 16 years. My self esteem is very low one could say gutter scum thinks better of its self than I do of myself. But even with all my low self esteem my hubby still loves me and praises me. He says I'm pretty and all that stuff though in my mind I don't see how he could think such ......   reply

It´s the first time since I was 14 (now 34) that I haven´t had any boy/girlfriend for more than a year (now it´s three). Personally I love having my schedules and routines and more time for myself. Also, sleeping by myself is NOICE (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧   reply

Not having to worry about hurting the other person by being too honest or too anything and not having to worry about the pressure on keeping the other person happy but this mostly depends on the person you are in a relationship with and your personality. ╮(￣▽￣)╭   reply

Not feeling scripted. I still have the tsundere effect when I first start to like someone, and I don't like that mix of being mean to them on instinct and feeling like I should be apologising all the time. I start to doubt the way I conduct myself, get too self conscious about my appearance, worried I'm saying too much... I've seen a lot of these c......   1 reply

The greatest perk about being single for me has to be that I don't feel obligated to spend time with them when I'd rather chill by myself. Not worrying about how the other person feels or if I'm being too clingy or too distant or too whatever-the-frick-quality-the-person-i'm-dating-doesn't-like. It's very freeing to not have to worry too much about......   reply

The being nervous in public situation's is a different beast all together so I'm going to put that aside and focus on the whole self esteem thing. I find one of the biggest mistakes people make is getting into relationships thinking that a relationship is about receiving validation and worth from someone else (aka your significant other). No matter......   reply

Having time to yourself, not being responsible or have any more worries about your partner or lover, spending less money, being free to admire other people without having guilt, not having any worries that the other partner is cheating, having less people butt into your relationship and stop asking personal question, and being able to hang out wth ......   reply