Not Having A Boyfriend

The greatest perk of being single for me is not getting hurt.I don't have to cry when we break up.I don't need to feel heartbroken when I see that person cheating.I don't need to feel sad when we fight.I don't need to feel jealous.So that's why I think it's the greatest perk for me. ╥﹏╥   1 reply

Omg,it's so weird how we have the exact same story,like,spot on.I am also really bad at speaking,I was fat when I was young,and I can't take it when a couple are making out in front of me,it makes me jealous. So i'm like #Single4Ever ╥﹏╥ (even tho i don't want this)   reply

I boywatch often but i don't do girlwatching too much. Boywatching:I only do it when I go to public areas like the mall or the church cuz it always seems that 90% of the good looking guys that I see always comes from those areas,as for school,I don't do it much because i know the good looking guy's personalities and I have to say,it's so bad that ......   1 reply

I selectively boywatch. Most are ugly. Some are cute. And I agree with you about the boywatching. If guys looked like BTS , I'd probably be a professional boywatcher. As for girl watching, I do it sometimes. But is it weird if the only thing that interests me are their eyes? I like green and gray eyes. The only problem though is that in my area I ......   reply

I'm an American and the MY English is probably as close as it gets to sounding like gibberish most of the time. So don't sweat it. I try to say one thing and it comes out like an alien said it. From the way you write your question it's obvious you're not as bad as you think. I'm 17 and I've also never dated anyone. And I'm shy and currently I'm con......   reply

Stop degrading yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. There's a lot of people on this planet and if the people around you are too blind to notice you, just remember your soul mate is still out there probably trying to find you as well. It's not weird at all and you are as normal as it gets. Not everyone turns around and gets a relationship, no ......   reply

Hi I'm 20 years old female and feel exactly like you. Like really the same on all the points you mentionned. I also struggled about it during my high school years, and now college days. I realised this summer I may be Aromantic. It means " a lack of/little of romantic attraction" ( to put it simply) I suggest you do some research on it, and try to......   2 reply

save that time and energy for yourself, since you're the one constant in your life, lol. i wouldn't waste my time and emotional energy interacting with people i really didn't need to. it's okay to be callous there. you're not obligated to give dudes the time of day. and while you should try things out if you want to put yourself out there, if you'r......   1 reply

Ok, it depends on how define boyfriend and what you expect from a relationship. Like, I thought that I was in relationships before your age, but I wouldn't call them that way any more, because I liked those guys way more than they liked me, because we never had a level of trust where I could be sure that something I said or did would stay between u......   reply

Try to push your boundaries a little. Be clear that you are not interested right now but maybe just pick someone who accepts that and hang out a little. It doesn't have to be much. It's OK to not be interested in anyone, and you shouldn't force yourself, but you also shouldn't avoid people because you are afraid. It will be worse if you are in a s......   1 reply