Not Having A Boyfriend

I just turned 23 two days ago! And I've never dated, or even had a crush. People give me a hard time about it, and I also sometimes feel the way you do, but I try to remind myself that everyone has a different path and they may not sync up (example: my roommate from college got engaged a year ago). But just remember that you should put yourself fir......   2 reply

It's not weird, or at least I don't think it is. I'm 23 and have never even kissed anyone. And I've only had 1 crush, back in highschool. Also 2 of my friends are like that, while another one recently married and another one marries in October. Everyone's situations are different. Doesn't mean we'll end up alone or anything. I used to think a lot l......   reply

Well, first off.. I am a male and i'm guessing you are a female? So it might be a bit hard for me to relate to everything that is pressuring you, but I personally do not think it is weird that you are 22 and have had no boyfriend. I consider 22 to be fairly young. There are also plenty of boys who at that age have never had a relationship. I have......   1 reply

I'm sorry but, are a fucking kidding me. I'm sorry if I'm offending you but nobody on their right mind would think "My personality is a shit and I'm so fucking ugly, like you can't imagine, so I thought that was the reason behind everything".....and what?! That doesn't mean you will not have anything at all unless you will work hard and be patient.......   3 reply

I gave up on loving someone too, like you, I think I'm ugly, and not only that but a shitty hypocrite, everyone thinks I'm sweet and happy, but that's just a mask so other people can "tolerate me" , because if I showed my true colors, I would be doomed lol ,and I'm awkward af with boys so that's another reason people avoid me. Well whatever, Don'......   2 reply

I don't know if it is weird or not, I can only tell you that I'm the same. I'll turn 22 this year and never had a boyfriend. Of course I don't want one just to have one, I really would like to find someone who can accept me with my flaws and still want to be with me but since I'm not very social nor very pretty I guess it won' be easy finding that ......   2 reply

It depends on the person. I'm quite older than you are right now. In my case I spend most of my teen years thinking I might be broken ( had trouble talking to guys) and had like 1 or 2 male friends. Once I hit college it got a little better, but that was when I also figured out that I didn't really want to date. My initial " want" was to fit in, n......   2 reply

Short answer: no. Long answer: your self-image seems very painful, and for the sake of your happiness (which has nothing to do with whether you are or aren't in a relationship), I hope you find ways to reconcile your reflection with your ideal. I suspect your self-reflection is too harsh and your ideals are somewhat, if not wholly, out of reach, ......   4 reply

Nope. It's not weird. I'm also 22 and never have been in a relationship. Actually my group of friends are all nbsb too. It's awesome. It's just that you still haven't found the right one. While there's me who doesnt want to have anything to do with reationships. Seriously.   2 reply

Sweety, what are you saying? You are not ugly, nobody is. Nobody is either beautiful. It's just that people have preferences usually according to what society and the media impose. Sounds cliché, I know, but your beauty is on the inside and in your abilities. According to your main question, I'm also 22 and I've never dated anyone. When I was a te......   6 reply