Dating

Yo. Communication and transparency are what held my relationship to last. If you keep piling this up, it will inevitably give a burnout to you. Your point is about your partner's selfishness, and not being on the same page that often right? You really need to confront your partner about this, since it WILL grow worse if you don't be frank about i......   reply

If you even have to ask the question ‘should I break up w them’ then the answers prob yes. All relationships should be give or take. Simple as that. If it’s not though and ur fine w it that’s fine. But for the whole ‘she won’t watch anime’ thing, I personally don’t ever expect or try to get my friends into anime/manga, because some ......   reply

I think you should break up . What’s the point in having a relationship with someone if they don’t treat you with respect .She clearly doesn’t deserve you . However , you said you still like her - and you think that she’s moving too fast with a relationship . I’d say go speak to her and have a conversation with her - and if she still isn�......   reply

From my point of view and from the information that I've recieved, you should break up with her. The relationship to me just seems like its not going anywhere, her not considering your opinion about things just seems like a red flag for me. In my point of view it just seems like she's the boss in the relationship, the person who has all the plans o......   reply

Honestly since I'm not the one in the relationship, I can't give you a definite answer. However, I do see a major red flag in her behavior. Constantly forcing you to do things and unwilling to compromise or consider your opinion is something that is not healthy in a relationship. Also moving in is a huge decision as well, but the fact that she isn'......   reply

Just because I'm not dating anyone doesn't mean I'm an absolute loner y'know. I have friends and family to talk to XD. Even if I was completely and utterly isolated the modern world solves that with the internet.   1 reply

Have a serious talk with her. If she isn't willing to compromise you're better off cutting her out of your life sooner rather than later. As someone who grew up in a dysfunctional house let me tell you, committing under the belief that "eventually it'll get better" is the single biggest mistake people make in their lives.   1 reply

Let me ask you this: why are you taken? Is it for external validation, sex, or maybe fear that if you don't grab one at your prime you'll be alone forever? Maybe you're lying to yourself about being happy, and really are trying to compensate for something you lack. Jk but you get the idea. As strange as it might seem I'm perfectly content alone wi......   1 reply

I identify as demi-romantic asexual so relationships are complicated.   reply