Dating

I've never dated before, so I don't actually have that "black hole"- wait I kinda do actually, after reading all the lovey-dovey mangas I get a bit lonely. But it doesn't matter when I'm with my friends. My friends fill that black hole and I'm happy and content. And drinking is a no-go for me, I get even more touchy-feely and lonely after drinki......   2 reply

getting drunk doesn't count? that's not fair but ok i get lonely but then i hang out with people and that reminds me people are terrible and being alone is great also fiction. reading and writing it. ...while drinking   reply

The thing is I don't think about it. So there is really no need to handle it. I mingle (aka flirt) when I feel like it. I do what I want. Well maybe it's probably because I don't equate being single with being lonely and being in a relationship with pure bliss.   reply

How do I handle it? I drown myself in manga! I was in a relationship for such a long time and then it suddenly ended. The hardest part was sleeping alone. When you are lying in bed at night with nothing to distract you, it's pretty hard to endure. So, yea. I recommend drowning in manga.   reply

Well, I've yet to not be single so I can't really say there's a big empty space in my heart. I also don't have a single non-blood-related human being that I am close with, which also does not bother me at all. I simply live my life with minimal interaction - when not working, I exercise, read books, write poetry, and translate Latin. Edit 3 years ......   1 reply