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I never saw gender as a factor for attraction even when I went to a super SUPER religious school that didn't even have anything remotely queer. I would fall for anyone that had a nice personality but wouldn't realize that it were actually crushes for the girls. (I thought that I just really really liked them as friends lol). And then when I was f......   reply

My best friend from Primary and I used to kiss all the time and never had a problem with it also every time I tried to think about boys in that light, it would just feel forced orI would end up in me thinking of a girl instead. Though it took me years of denial and trying to force myself to like dudes, I've come to the realisation it's not for me......   reply

happened when i was 6 years old i just happened to kiss a girl and i saw no problems with it i thought everyone did LMAOOOOO   1 reply

Did anyone else tell people they were bi, when you were actually gay to sorta "lessen the blow?" I thought if I told people I was bi I would get less homophobia against me since I could be considered half-straight lol.   reply

Focus on yourself and your goals first. Because if you don't know what you want in a relationship, and don't know what your boundaries are...well it can get tough! Don't sacrifice your joy for another person, they should make u feel good too! (read this online)   reply

I never had a phase where I needed to sit down with myself and go "hey maybe I'm not straight", cause I knew. I didn't have words to put on it, but I goddamn knew I was a raging panromantic. It was always a question about how open I was about it-- I don't lie outright, I'm just more or less vague about it.   reply

Well, I always knew I liked boys. I couldn't deny it nor did I try. But because I was homophobic I tried throughout my teenage years to convince myself that I'm bisexual (I'm 22 btw). It seemed worse to be gay than bi, therefore I thought I had to like girls as well in order to 'fix' things. So I even dated a girl for a little while and after that......   reply

took me to realize my gay awakening in ninth grade. at some point I thought I was aro bc I was never interested in anyone, surprise surprise I’m just dense as hell (legit TOOK ME TWO YEARS TO REALIZE I HAD A CRUSH). anyways I wasn’t really homophobic since my parents aren’t really conservative   reply