Give Life Advice

I’ve always been a good listener since young and friends come to me to pour their hearts out. I like listening to people’s stories and giving realistic and logical advice or opinions. But after becoming a psych student in university, more people would come to tell me things and get advices. They’ll be like “you’re a psych student, i need......   1 reply

Give my younger self a hug   reply

I just try to be as positive as possible, if a bad thought puts me down I would just smile (which doesn't actually work most of the time) or to quickly think about something else. But still its really hard to stay positive 24/7.   reply

I'm gonna need a little bit more context because I'm not sure what ABM stands for. I'm guessing a field in a business major? I'd first suggest that you take the thinking process about this slow and steady because the stress definitely won't help, been there, and hated it all. Look at what your program does in upper years, look at the kinds of cours......   1 reply

Hey, most people don’t pick a major or career course and whatnot their first year of college. My advice is to sign up for the basic courses (your required credits like math, etc.) and get those out of the way for now. It gives you time to figure out which specific classes you might take your next few years of college and what you want to do. Deci......   reply

At most you should ask your friend why he specifically chose the word trap over crossdresser or female impersonator or that he prefers to dress in feminine clothing. I think the term trap is problematic and that should be addressed, but other than that don't do anything just let your friend be himself.   reply

Do you have any ideas of careers you like or interest you? If there is none. Maybe you have to take a step back and think? In my opinion, its good to explore your abilities and interests. If taking a step back (ex. Stopping a year or something) is not an option (because of personal reasons)... Im not saying its effective bjt there are people who to......   reply

Most people don't know what they want to do in life and most people change what they're gonna do like 3 times in college. It's dumb to worry about this when you haven't attended college classes before because college give you the opportunity to explore unlike high school. This isn't something you need to stress about rn. I would only worry about th......   reply

oh wow lol. Do your best to show kindness to everyone. Try to chose joy everyday. Find a passion and work toward your goals as though you're on the cusp of achieve them. Don't be afraid to say sorry, you know when you messed up so just admit it and move on. Always take responsibility. Wake up early and get what you need to get done. Eat well. Exerc......   1 reply