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To go through a rebirth into another world, keeping my current memories of this one because I dont want to loose who I am, would like it to be a world set in the past (loooovvvveee the big gowns) like in those otome (if thats how it is spelt) game rebirths, I dont really care if it is an otome rebirth just would love some magic - I really want comp......   reply

Personally I prefer reading about non heterosexual couples and because GL isnt as big, I just read BL stuff. EXCEPT I will not read the fetishizing manga or anything with weird oversexualized and unhealthy vibes. I tend to prefer shounen ai since I don’t feel any interest in the sexual relation between men. Anything with nsfw I just scroll until ......   reply

I'm bi but I always wondered what makes me more into yaoi than yuri... I recently thought that the answer is that yaoi has more of a history and culture around it and yuri is sometimes too.... dramatic..? Like, the ones written by women I mean. Or maybe I just have higher standards with stories with women in them.. Shitty yaoi is in abundance but i......   1 reply

Fellow lesbian here, congrats we're not alone! We can have the vodka in celebration. I adore yaoi, but I think I enjoy it so much because of my sexuality. Heterosexual love stories are fine, but I don't think I can connect to them in the same way that I can to yaoi. With BL there's the element of nonacceptance that I unconsciously crave in a story......   2 reply

Nah you aren't alone, some of my friends and I like BL since it isn't for the male demographic it is for females so it's usually more appealing since they are written by women who know what women want so it is far more appealing. To me shojo ai is great but the yuri just isn't very good since they aren't really targeted to lesbians they are targete......   reply

Hello I am a lesbian gay, absolutely addicted to yaoi ╮(￣▽￣)╭ I've been trying to get into Yuri but idk, most of them are not as good. Maybe there too girly and cutesy? A lot of them are. The ones that aren't are triangle dramas, something I absolutely loathe lmao. I prefer BL over yaoi in general since what interests me is the conflict......   2 reply

Im so so so lesbian it hurts bt I love yaoi and barely like yuri, its normal. Its a female literature not a "heterosexual" female literature. Almost all the shit about lesbians are made for men and not for us.   1 reply

well do you all realize basically yuri are made for guys and yaoi are made for girls....the inception of manga/anime ahah (≧∀≦) anyway yes i'm a lesbian who also read yaoi, among other manga ╮(￣▽￣)╭   1 reply

I'm bi but I VERY rarely find men attractive, I guess when they're 2D it's different?? I actually thought I was a lesbian before getting into BL three years ago and then men started to seem appealing sometimes (weird ik). lmao I wish a smart psychologist person could explain this to me. Like even the yaois where they both look super masculine seem ......   1 reply

You're absolutely not alone in that - I'm a lesbian and I read yaoi and BL all the time. ;_; I can't ever fathom the idea of having a relationship with a guy and I've really only ever been truly in love with a couple of women before. But sometimes yaoi and BL have such good gay stories that actually address a lot of issues and have a lot of intere......   1 reply