Relationship Toubles

The first answer by Uchan is the best and most objective. The important thing is knowing your own pleasure and sexual preferences, which is hard for a virgin, but toys are also really good lol. If you haven’t done any exploration into your own sexual pleasure, then honestly don’t put so much weight on “losing your v card”. Most of the time......   reply

It wouldn’t be wise to force yourself to have sex if your concern is bc you feel left behind, that already feels like the start of a long-streak of mistakes. That’s your body you’re talking about, don’t be reckless with it. It’s honestly better to get an ugly tattoo by mistake instead of giving your body to somebody else’s care in the n......   reply

I just have to say, coming from a married person, losing my V card to my husband was the best thing that has happened to me. I think waiting for that moment when you finally meet "the one" was the reason sex felt more intimate rather than just pleasure, it was almost about giving your whole to that person rather than giving less than what they dese......   reply

I believe that sex after marriage is better than losing it before having a permanent spouse, cuz I don't want experience it right now even if my mind think so. I'm a GenZ but I wanted to be pure for my future spouse....so yeah it's a no go for me.   2 reply

I don't know if I should even talk as a 23 year old virgin, but I don't think you should rush it. If having sex is what you desire then go on, just DON'T do it just for the sake of it and wait for the right moment when you really want to (as you can see from the other comments, rushing it is not a good idea). HOWEVER what I'm getting at is that if ......   reply

Pls do not rush into having sex because everyone else is. I lost my V card when I was 21 and I had not even had my first kiss up until that point. I also felt like I was falling behind and even pathetic at times. It was a form of peer pressure I was putting on myself. My bf was a great guy but I still wish I waited until I wanted to do it, not beca......   reply

losing your virginity isn’t magical, and it doesn’t feel very good at first, but once you get more used to sex it feels much better. everyone’s experience is different, i lost mine when i was 18 with my bf of over a year, and we did a lot of prep work leading up to it (he’s pretty big lol). the most important part of the first time is mak......   1 reply

No it’s not this magical experience manga and the movies LIED LMAO that’s the tea It is different if you find someone you connect and trust with which is the important part, it adds a deeper layer of intimacy and connection if that’s something you crave, my first time or any of my times with men did not have that, it was completely soulless ......   1 reply

I haven't graduated yet (1 more year to go) but the last and first time someone had a crush on me was 6th grade and I didnt like them back, I dont want any forced relationships either where im getting together with someone for the sake of being in a relationship. Ive 'kissed' before but that was really just pecks with a childhood friend when we wer......   reply