I mean- obviously real life lgbt people are different... I dont really feel anything towards other lgbt ppl since I am one myself.. but I feel happy seeing an elderly lgbt couple because that could be me in the future and I think its sweet :)   reply
21 01,2021
You really thought it was appropriate to post about your fantasies about your fucking brother's sex life? Damn... Okay. I'll stop there so I don't say mean things.   reply
21 01,2021
1.- yeah 2.- yes as long as you dont fetish 3.- most do because of the way they represent the relationship but some dont and present the relationship really nicely 4.- ofc 5.- as long as you know the line between them yes 6.- because of the background behind the word 7.- yeah   reply
21 01,2021
6. Calling yourself a fujoshi is controversial because fujoshi are generally recognized and known for fetishizing and basically seeing gay people as objects. So considering yourself one would be like saying, “Oh, yeah, I fetishize too.” Or at least this is what I think.   reply
21 01,2021
1 . for me its a yes 2. yes absolutely 3. I dont think so 4. honey absolutely yes 5. yes but we need to know theres some differences in yaoi world and reality 6. im not pretty sure why but to Japanese people , if you're a fujoshi they gonna look down upon you cause thats something that you should not people about because some people might weird ou......   reply
21 01,2021
Ohh i m happy for the guys tho haha. I guess it would be more painful for u if he chose another girl not a boy , so find another crush and make him yours before he s taken and be happy sis (・∀・)   1 reply
21 01,2021
1) Yes some of it 2) Yes some of it 3) A lot of it does 4) yes 5) as long as you don’t read shota or be creepy to gay men it’s okay 6) making an identity out of reading gay porn or BL is incredibly weird and fetishizing. 7) yes   reply
21 01,2021
1.yes but is bl not yaoi so I'm going to use bl 2. It is but if you fetishize it don't 3. some do but some don't 4.yes 5.yes 6.idk ask the smart people 7.idk I'm not sure if these answers are correct but I just answered how I wanted   reply
21 01,2021
Okay ngl I'm probably a bit young to be on this website but I've seen so many discussions about fujoshis and yaoi. So I just want to ask some questions.
1.) Is it okay to read stuff here under the yaoi genre?
2.) Is it okay to read yaoi at all?
3.) Does yaoi fetishize gay relationships?
4.) Is it okay for me to read it if I'm not using it to fetishize gay relationships?
5.) Is it okay to read yaoi if I know yaoi and real life are two separate things?
6.) Why is calling yourself a fujoshi so controversial?
7.) Due to the controversial subject should I stay away from identifying as a fujoshi?

I'm not trolling I'm just curious and want to make sure I'm not offending anyone or doing anything wrong. Thanks for answering!
21 01,2021

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