Being Gay

Misogyny among straight men is common & they receive enough hate for it but gay men & trans men think they are entitled to do it? Y'all know right that after the LGBTQ+ community we're the ones who support you the most & the dudes y'all fawn over are homophobic in most cases? Saying stuff like "girls like her is the reason why I turned gay" / "I'm gay cus girls are annoying" is just straight up bullshit cus that's just denying the fact that people are born this way & can't 'turn' gay. And I 100% support trans men but could y'all please keep the insults & the long list of 'troubles' of being a girl to yourself cus we're living that life & very much proud of what we are.
PS: ofc I know 'not all gay/trans men' are like that, yeah .
Side note for people who learned the word fetish & won't shut up: I'm not one of those girls who worship gay men on a pedestal but those who do probably do it because they think they've finally found someone of the opposite sex who won't be friends with them just to get into their pants. They're not fetishizing you & have 0 interest in your sex life (mostly) .

So i only recently came to terms with being bi and this is my first time having a crush on a girl. And boy is it painful. I need to get over it, please if you have any suggestions send them my way:D I can’t cut her off completely since we’re in the same friend group and me avoiding her even slightly makes things weird. I’d be totally okay if she just didn’t like me back and ignored me, but her being super friendly makes it a thousand times more painful lol. I don’t want to make her uncomfortable so telling her is out of question.

im a bi girl ive dated women and men i did like them but when it came to physical relationship i couldnt bear it ... im more into emotional stuff and things got pretty akward in my relationships and girls thought i used them but same things with men i didnt like any physical contact i some times couldnt even bare kissing and stuff i just wanted to throw up some times so if someone can explain what is happening it would be really cool from them ...