Being Gay

cis woman, pansexual, love BL and queer graphic media in general, i like that there is more representation, i think it helps to fight some prejudices while reinforce others, still BL is often more endearing to me than heterosexual romance, of course there are many cringe worthy titles, and ridiculous tropes like glorified rape and self lubricating ......   reply

Im straight and in my country, people are really judgemental and the society makes every lgbtq+ issues a big deal (like come on, people). Anyway, people (all gender) here don't usually kiss (intensely) in public but when I see one, i feel really proud of them. Part of me feels shy though, because i know myself that people around me will judge them......   reply

hey there newbie, how do you have sex? do you prefer long sessions or quickies? do you like to be on top or the bottom? how about being taken from the back or the front? are you proactive or a dead fish? do you like it rough or gentle? i think you are a girl so when masturbating do you prefer clitoris stimulation or penetration? when stimulating yo......   reply

i personally am not interested in BL. being a cis lesbian, i would not relate to yaoi mangas. another reason why im not intrested in BL is because of the many problematic, cringey, and annoying fujoshis that ruined it for me. there are fujoshis that read BL but are homophobic irl. there are many readers of yaoi (the majority being straight girls) t......   reply

asking them about their sex positions is a big no. would you ask a straight person if theyre a top or bottom?? many of yaoi and yuri mangas are in fact unrealistic and fetishize queer individuals, since they are written by straight people for straight people. its not logical to become educated about the lgbt community by reading mangas. you should ......   reply

Its fun and all but if it's your first time it might just hurt like a motherfucker (╬￣皿￣)凸 Without lube   reply

I had a crush on the head cheerleader in middle school and halfway through high school..when I finally figured out how much I loved her she already had me wrapped around her finger that was when I accepted it. we dated for 4 years and then she died in a car accident in 2003 after that I never dated another girl again.. I miss her like crazy and st......   reply

my first coming out was at 5 (i just told my mom at that time) , but the "official" one, the one that made me accept myself was around 15, i told my mom for the second time i had a girl i liked. She accepted it pretty nicely and comforted me when i got rejected... it seemed weird to me when i was young because i come from a very homophobic country......   reply

If you don't talk about sex with you friends in general, of course she would be mad that you suddenly ask. Yes, most yuri/yaoi are writting for heterosexual people and are not realistic. But I do not think it is wrong to be curious, in fact I think it's better than wanting to know nothing. Of course, gay or not, they're doing sex. Just like ever......   reply

I'm lesbian and i like it a lot! I think that some are just fluffy stories really shoujo-like but with a same sex couple, some show the issue of not being accepted, coming out, being bullied, being toyed with, being harshly rejected because of your feelings,loving a person who'll never love back... like, all the bad moments we have to go through as......   reply