It depends on the person who bullied me, what I went through was fucking hell. It made me unable to have friends for most of my highschool days. They spread rumors about me being a gay sl#t then physically bullied me. The amount of anger I have with them right now? Is alot. They made me into someone so hateful and petty. It ruined my other relation...... 1 reply
AITA for complaining abt our maid ?
[Question]
07 07,2024
So where I live it's very common to have maids, they do stuff like laundry, cleaning, cooking.. just basic house work. We actually had 2, one of them quit bc she fought with my sister so my mom brought a new one.
The thing is !! She kinda pisses me off BECAUSE she doesn't do what she is supposed to do. Let me give you basic examples, on Eid she was supposed to wake up early and do some stuff but she woke up at 11am and we had to do everything super late. Another example, after we eat lunch she is supposed to wash the dishes BUT SHE NEVER DOES IT SO I HAVE TO DO IT. Like instead of doing the chores she just hangs out on the rooftop and calls her friends/family/idk.
Now, I was complaining abt this to my friend and she called me a privilege and spoilt asshole. Like excuse me??? She is getting PAID to work and she isn't doing so, why would I not complain?? If it was once or twice okay BUT IT'S LIKE THIS ALMOST EVERYDAY. She always let the 2nd maid do everything ts makes me maaaad. And also she speaks in an impolite tone, like I don't really care but if she was nice at least I could feel bad. Most of the time, the girls who take such job don't have a good financial situation, their family depends on them and the salary isn't THAT high so I kinda understand my friend but I still got mad at her.
So aita ??
The thing is !! She kinda pisses me off BECAUSE she doesn't do what she is supposed to do. Let me give you basic examples, on Eid she was supposed to wake up early and do some stuff but she woke up at 11am and we had to do everything super late. Another example, after we eat lunch she is supposed to wash the dishes BUT SHE NEVER DOES IT SO I HAVE TO DO IT. Like instead of doing the chores she just hangs out on the rooftop and calls her friends/family/idk.
Now, I was complaining abt this to my friend and she called me a privilege and spoilt asshole. Like excuse me??? She is getting PAID to work and she isn't doing so, why would I not complain?? If it was once or twice okay BUT IT'S LIKE THIS ALMOST EVERYDAY. She always let the 2nd maid do everything ts makes me maaaad. And also she speaks in an impolite tone, like I don't really care but if she was nice at least I could feel bad. Most of the time, the girls who take such job don't have a good financial situation, their family depends on them and the salary isn't THAT high so I kinda understand my friend but I still got mad at her.
So aita ??
