There's this guy I've been pretty close friends with for about 8 years (and I also am best buddies with his younger brother but thats irrelevant)

Now about 3 - 4 years ago I noticed he had a crush on me, he started doing me a lot of favours, often asked if I wanted to watch an anime or movie with him, always wanted to do stuff I want to do and a lot of other stuff which got more advanced...
In one instance my best bud even said 'He has a crush on you!' to which he got flustered and said 'No I don't!' and I was like in the room trying to play along and be like 'Lol nAh he doesn't-'

The thing is, he's pretty kind and all but I never liked him back that way, I always thought of him as a chill brother more than anything (And I also was gaying for my female best friend-)
I very much knew he had a crush on me and so I pretended to be totally oblivious to it because I couldn't bring myself to talk to him about it but at the same time I also felt really guilty for letting him live in that false hope

Fastforward to 2020 and uh he still has a crush on me and tries to make advances which make me feel pretty uncomfy mostly because well...
I have a girlfriend now-
And I'm not sure how to bring that up to him, especially when I don't want to break his heart because he really is a cool person

Soo what should I do?

(And I know the title might be a bit misleading but Idk a better one oof)
16 07,2020
Hi! It seems that u r smutty so Im gonna give u LOVE at its realest.. http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/this_ending/ http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/rumspringa_no_joukei/ http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/life_senjou_no_bokura/   2 reply
01 07,2020
My three favorite shounen ai manhwa/manhua that focuses on the characters' painful struggles and personality (excluding mainstreams ofc): http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/cocoon_of_the_heart/ http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/jazz_for_two/ http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/truth_or_dare/ My two most sensual fave yaoi manga: http://www.mangago.me/rea......   1 reply
01 07,2020
I will categorize them into 4 parts. First one BL's with decent plot, second one fluff BL's, third one are psychological BL's and the fourth one are underrated BL's. Here we go! ~~~~~ BL with decent plot. Keep in mind some of them arent labeled as yaoi because BL is only a small part of them :D ~~~~~ http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/canis/ http......   1 reply
01 07,2020
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01 07,2020
This sounds kinda harsh but I hate it when everyone's teasing me and everyone's attention at me so I ignore those guys people tease me with lmao   1 reply
01 07,2020
️️️ ⚜️ The Devil's Temptation (HIGHLY RECOMMENDED !!) http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_devil_s_temptation/?8hco ️ ⚜️ BJ Alex http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bj_alex/?w2iW ️ ⚜️ Cherry blossoms after winter http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/cherry_blossoms_after_winter/ ️ ⚜️ Love is an illusion http://www.mang......   2 reply
01 07,2020
Jessy 01 07,2020
Yeah, he was kind of popular and asked me out while going back to class from P.E. I wasn't interested in him because he isn't my type and tries too hard to act cool, when he's not. Thankfully, we went to different schools after moving to grammar school.(▰˘◡˘▰)   reply
01 07,2020
Okay, so I go to an all girls school, and she's the reason I realized I was Bisexual, so here we go. I'll call her L for lesbian, as I'm thankful to know she is one (or death note, lol) and she is definitely one of a kind. When I first came to like her, I was in denial and thought it was just because we were friends, but it happened in stages, firs......   reply
01 07,2020
I'm not the biggest fan of yaoi(I like shounen ai better) but I have still read some good yaoi. Two really good ones are Cherry Blossoms After Winter and Kiraide Isasete. If you want some good Shounen Ai ,Star x Fanboy and Fools are my absolute favorites. They don't have any juicy stuff but there is some implied stuff in Fools.   1 reply
01 07,2020
Attycus
01 07,2020
I've rejected a few people but I've also been rejected so I'm familiar with the awkwardness and sting of being on either side. Love is weird like that. Full of ups and downs and strange feelings and you never really forget things like rejecting someone or being rejected. You might not think about them often but the memories and feelings are still t......   reply
01 07,2020

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