Crushed Crush

Yea... so many times, lots of denied numbers and social media requests. most memorable was the DJ who would basically wax poetry for me over the free cans of energy drinks i'd give him. Not really into guys so I let him down gently. then there was the man who would come in every day for cigarettes and coffee. He was an older gentlemen who liked t......   reply

Unfortunately. The younger immature me liked to play around and then ghost people when it gets too demanding or the relationship is getting more serious that the other person is about to ask. I feel sorry about it now because of commitment issues.   reply

Yeahhhh. Had a good friend of the opposite gender for a while. He confessed to me twice and I rejected him both times. Glad I did cause we had a bad falling out in the end. We really weren't compatible at all. I kinda knew he wanted more from me than I wanted from him. So the entire friendship was strained really.   reply

Did it straight to the guys twice , I was 11 and 17 ╮(￣▽￣)╭   reply

Not really "rejecting" in a "sorry, no"-way. More like accidently rejecting a few girls. Not that I would ever consider myself that much wanted xD   reply

The amount of gross old men I have had to reject is unreal. I can’t walk down the street anymore without somebody old ass uncle or grandpa yelling “ HEY MISS! You look good!” And me having to awkwardly lie and say I’m dating someone and then explain no I cannot be friends with benefits with them because of my fake boyfriend.   1 reply

I have unfortunately done this way too many times. One of my friends said they thought only anime characters were as oblivious, but how wrong she had been after being with me. She even went as far as telling me I had a harem around me but me being an oblivious fuck didn't notice it.. and well, i wish not so many people had confessed to me since it ......   1 reply

I have but this was when I was super young like 8 this boy said he liked me I said no cuz I didn't really understand what he meant and my mum said that I should never like a guy at my age and he gave off weird vibess so my kid self was like nahhh hard pass then one day I found out whilst I was playing in the play ground friends had said they saw hi......   reply

My advice is to be clear with them about the rejection. If you are sure that you don't want to be with them, don't give them false hope because it will be harder for them to heal and move on. Make sure that they understand that you are saying "no" and not misinterpret is as "maybe". I think the best way to do it is to just be honest about your rea......   1 reply

Yea there are a bunch of lucky guys I rejected lol but the most remarkable one was that guy who confessed to me during our last year of middle school... I friend zoned him and thought it was over .... yet we ended in the same class in high school lol ... he never gave up even when we got into college.. separate colleges luckily.. he still confessed......   1 reply