Falling Inlove

Are you INFJ? Your whole story reads my thought, perception, action in irl.(⊙…⊙ )   1 reply

Reading your post seemed like someone took my life and write it on paper, cept that we both have our few differences. But yeah, the superiority/inferiority complex thing is similar, but I also tend to get bored really fast with anyone, so to speak. and sometimes, if I have a 'crush', it turns out that it was just because I wasn't close enough with ......   reply

Frankly speaking, I am mostly the same as you. I am terrified of loving someone or be loved. I’m also 18 y.o. and I know I have a lot of love to give as I am quite affectionate with my family and my close friends. My father was a toxic and manipulative person who verbally abused my mother, my siblings and I. Even if I know it’s false, I’m u......   1 reply

Im afraid to have love since ive seen my friends hurting because of it and it became i dont trust people saying they love me or anyone else, because i witness on how devastated they are when one of my friends broke up with their lover i think that i dont want to experience those things even though they called it as part of the process or the cycle ......   reply

I don't think you can avoid falling in love. But you can probably try to avoid the person tho it won't do much.   1 reply

For me, falling in love was like a realization. One day, I was just spending time with that person and it just hit me like "Oh. I love you. Huh." I don't know how it is for other people but I was always unsure of myself and my feelings until that moment. Now, it's just like "Yes, I love you." and it's unwavering and it's certain and it's comforting......   1 reply

I actually fell in love about 2 years ago. I'm 17 now, almost 18. It seems extremely young, but somehow I can tell that it really was this intense love. I knew this boy a year older than me, we met online and lived in different countries, so we never met. He was such a major part of my life in a lot of ways, though. About a year into talking was wh......   1 reply

I have never really fallen in love before. I don't know if it's just me or my social circle but I don't really find any boy or girl appealing to me for me to actually fall in love with them. I do find some girl or boy cute, but those crushes usually end in like a week. For some reason, calling myself straight, or bisexual or any other labels just d......   4 reply

Honestly, maybe this is just me, but I can tell when I fall in love. It's a feeling of intense connection to another person, for me. I don't believe there's only one true love for people, but there are multiple people we are each compatible with and, if you're lucky, you'll get that feeling of being destined to be with someone. That's what I hope f......   reply