All my crushes have been unrequited, then again my being lithromantic (aka akoiromantic) and asexual also made me not want to pursue those relationships. Anyway, I did fall hard, though and it was painful and awkward, but eventually in my case, I fell “out of love”. One of my crushes lingered for years, Took a break from that person, I fell fo......   reply
17 03,2020
The important thing is not to grow those feelings more than how much they are now. Really. As time passes, you might develop those feelings even more and trust me, you’re gonna get hurt even more. It’s a difficult way if you want to get over unrequited love, especially towards your close friend. I happened to fall in love twice this way, both......   reply
17 03,2020
If you are comfortable (and safe) maybe tell her your feelings? One of my closest friends confessed their feelings for me and although I never felt the same way it helped them move on. Like ending the chapter in a way. Recently they have found a great girlfriend and we had a heart to heart and they thanked me for letting them have closure. Unrequi......   2 reply
17 03,2020
Onion
15 03,2020
I’m not a particularly extroverted or introverted person, and I’ve had my fair share of dating experience, but I remember feeling the same way as you described back when I was just starting high school. I would worry that I would never really develop deep romantic feelings for someone, or that if I did I would be rejected.., But the truth is ......   reply
15 03,2020
Blptott
08 03,2020
As someone who has been in the same boat I can tell you this; the more you worry the worse it will be. I used to be EXTREMELY introverted and I hated myself. But here's the thing, someone will come along and see you for who you are. That happened to me and with our relationship I bloomed. I'm still an introvert but I'm not as anxious as I used to b......   reply
08 03,2020
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08 03,2020
i wanna experience this kind of feeling but people see me as a cold person but the truth is i’m just very shy and awkward because i don’t know how to keep a conversation going and... i also get scared easily by the tragic love stories i hear making me scared to commit.. what do i do? ┗( T﹏T )┛
08 03,2020
back in middle school, a girl transferred into the class next door. i never welcomed her properly, but the first time i saw her smile was when i immediately knew i fell in love.

and i'm a former straight girl. moments after, this straight girl(?) found out they weren't as straight as they thought they were.

we became friends through mutual connections, and sure enough, we've only become closer friends through the years. i already came out to her and our mutual friends as pansexual, but what she still hasn't figured out is the fact that i still have feelings for her. well, hopefully she hasn't.

i'm sure she's as straight as a wooden plank, so i wanted to know how people dealt with unrequited loves who they never had a chance with.
15 02,2020
Hey. What I've heard from you up to now, sounds like you felt like you had more of the responsibilities of a caretaker than a lover. Did I get that right? In that case, I understand why you might have felt relief when y'all broke up. Maybe that really has something to do with the feelings that faded away. Or maybe not. Just some questions for you t......   reply
14 02,2020
I also feel the same way as you. When I broke up with my previous bf, I was sad, but I wasn't sobbing or crying. I mean, I never cry or anything for the other exes as well, but the last one was literally the one that I though serious and very committed relationship. I am 26 and many people think that I will settle down with him. I thought so as wel......   reply
14 02,2020
Could be aromanticism! You can be completely capable of feeling lust for people or even developing crushes but feeling romantic feelings can be impossible most of the time. That doesn't mean there's something wrong with you or anything! If you feel like you're happiest on your own and doing your own thing, then you should do that, no need to feel p......   reply
13 02,2020

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