A lot of them weird me out ngl. Excusing fucked up tropes that are being normalized in this community just because "its yaoi logic", or looking at gay men as gay men rather than individual people. There are way more reasons but they rub me the wrong way.
That being said, you can read yaoi and not be a fujo, straight women can read it but its when ...... 2 reply
As a lesbian with many gay friends I strongly dislike most fujoshis. Yaoi is often very fetishizing and tends to romanticize abuse, toxic relationships, ectera. It's just gross to see queer men like,, existing in general and the comments just filled with (usually straight) girls bragging about how much they get off to them. Like they treat gay rela...... reply
