You are completely valid, please do not worry!   reply
11 07,2020
Hello! I’m a gay male who reads BL/yaoi anyways I can see why there is discrimination towards the fujo community but there shouldn’t be any discrimination towards us! We kinda have somewhat of a right to no not fetishize gay men but to enjoy reading mangas and manwhas that have lewd scenes about them. For me I’m into phycological horror yaois......   reply
11 07,2020
I agree with the definition of the term itself. Which just means someone who enjoys BL. I do love it reading BL but idk I feel like so many fujoshis fetishize gay men. And some people say “well it’s not all of use just some” but I feel like it’s a least half of y’all. You need to call out the toxic people in your group, instead you just a......   reply
11 07,2020
As a lesbian with many gay friends I strongly dislike most fujoshis. Yaoi is often very fetishizing and tends to romanticize abuse, toxic relationships, ectera. It's just gross to see queer men like,, existing in general and the comments just filled with (usually straight) girls bragging about how much they get off to them. Like they treat gay rela......   reply
11 07,2020
Back in 2015, when I started reading BLs, fujoshi was not seen as a bad word. Nowadays people conflate it with fetishizing gay men, because of 'fujoshis' being predatory towards real men(plus the portrayal of fujoshis in anime like Kiss Him Not Me). So I would opt to not use the word if you don't do that bc it conflates you with the negative stereo......   1 reply
11 07,2020
Hi! I think this twitter thread might help with your research https://twitter.com/lizcourserants/status/1279599966441398272   reply
11 07,2020
I like reading yaoi and do not feel proud for liking it.   reply
11 07,2020
I get this a lot. "YoU aRe FeTiShIzInG gAyS!!1!". First of all, no, I'm not. Just because I like Yaoi/BL doesn't mean I want to be gay and do this. Defending myself is awful, especially when I have to it ALL THE TIME. Yaoi is an amazing genre, and it's tarnished by the fetishizers. Rant over.   1 reply
11 07,2020
(LGBT+ member here, lesbian tho) Haha ohhhhh a history lesson, ‘fujoshi’ literally translates to ‘rotten woman’ and the history of the term is that it was coined by misogynistic and homophobic men who believed that if a woman enjoyed BL content, she was rotten aka unmarriable The term I believe now has been reclaimed by Japanese women and ......   2 reply
11 07,2020
Hi, i am researching for our project and i need to know your opinions about yaoi and fujoshis. I need all of your sides, from the discriminated boys or fujoshis who defend themselves. I am in desperate need of help. People are saying fujoshis and fudanshis are toxic and harmful(I AM NOT STARTING FANDOM WARS) and i need to know the sides of those discriminated by the fujoshis and fudanshis and the sides of the fujoshis that are constantly discriminated by people saying you are fetishizing gay people. Please please please reply
10 07,2020

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