Im not autistic [Experience]
0jow 5 days
People call talent- autism these days.. sure i can named all 898 pokemon just from memory.. or how i dont like the a particular cheese from subway. But it doesnt mean im autistic   1 reply
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AUGHHH SIFTING THREW OLD BOXES I FUCKING FIND A JOURNAL WITH A STARTER PACK I MADE IN 2020 (the dark ages) WTF IS THIS this is a product of its time and niche I can’t tell if this ironic or not I was a little hater back then I can’t even take this seriously yall get to cringe with me LMFAO   2 reply
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Yoouskie
15 days
Since you guys are disagreeing I'm gonna play the devil's advocate here. Objectively speaking OP is right, BL bottoms DO have strong mental fortitudes if we strip away the fact that they're like that because abuse is normalized. Being able to withstand all that torment without falling into a deep depression is insane if we used irl standards, I thi......   reply
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Jiyeonie 15 days
None of them are strong, authors remove their sense of respect to oneself and boundaries just so their top can stay loveable by audiences and their actions are excused because the "bottom was fine" or "bottom forgave them" like okay I haven't updated my research in awhile on this but this lol but you get the gist   1 reply
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Its because the authors are just a bunch of lil sadomasochist   reply
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Tonikaku 15 days
They aren't strong. They are badly written characters written by authors who have sex fetishes and some very therapy worthy issues. After reading a certain amount of BLs, it becomes pretty clear most of these authors have never spoken to a gay man, that's how unrealistic and asspull their writing is. They basically write misogynistic f/m and replac......   reply
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My top strong bottom, Jiang Luo from 'This thirst for survival' (I don't care if you've seen me post about this novel, it gets free publicity from moi). This is a bottom who shall not take any shit from anybody, top or otherwise. AAAnnnnnddd it's not 'cause the top is some sort of green flag puppy, but like straight up black flag kills people and s......   reply
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You wanna know what the definition of a strong Uke is? DR.SEOK -has a defect which makes his body extremely weak, and I mean WEAK as in he can’t drink water too fast, coffee makes him sick, and riding in a car for a bit too long can kill him. -yet still managed to have his mind clear through 3 kidnappings. -got shot once -got fingernail tortured,......   3 reply
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Mioro
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theyre written as trauma bonding victims every damn time to justify why the insanely toxic top is gonna be endgame   reply
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period 15 days
Unrealistically strong, I feel like they are written that way on purpose. To be idealized as the perfect doormat but also they secretly want everything that happens to them so *gasp* they were actually in control of the narrative the whole time, rather than the victim they were the mastermind, it's like a male Mary sue. IDK maybe im thinking too de......   reply
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