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It's not selfish. Having kids is a choice. People act like women *should* have kids, but that's cultural and societal pressure. It's not a rule, nor should anyone ever be forced to do that. What *is* selfish, is giving birth to a child to "fit in" or "meet expectations", and then not giving them the love, stability, care, or energy they deserve; ......   reply

absolutely NOT selfish. period.   reply

Bro hates when characters feel whimsy and childlike wonder ----- BL comics only work if both characters are male because some of these human rights violations would not fly if one of the characters was female. Also lots of internalized misogyny.   1 reply

Something I find myself thinking often, especially when reading anything with a female character, is: Why are they always built like that? The proportions are so unrealistic, yet people will still try to argue otherwise. You can almost always tell when a female character has been written by a man, it’s painfully obvious. And it’s not just limit......   3 reply

we're here as a lending ear. dont hesitate to reach out, okay? :)   reply

Sure, it can be selfish from a literal definition. I also think an argument could be made that it's selfish against yourself. Selfish--:: (of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for others; concerned chiefly with one's own personal profit or pleasure. My motivation is that I need to outlive the US empire and I don't want to imagine ......   reply

It is selfish. In an extremely broad perspective, it is, because children are inherently a burden, but you need the human population to continue... well, everything. If everything decided that raising children is a hassle and they only considered the realistic benefits of it, then yes, I would say, the decision is inherently selfish. Especially if......   1 reply

Idk man let me ask google   reply

No. Doesn’t mean you should do it though it’s really never the solution. I learned that the hard way   reply