Made A Horrible Mistake

the reason why fujoshis are often seen in the weird way is because people assume fujoshi = fetishizing mlm. i heard someone say all all mlm fetishizers are fujoshis but not all fujoshis are mlm fetishizers. lmfao there was also a time where i realized i've been in the bl rabbit hole for awhile. it's not actually hard to get out of it cause nowaday......   reply

I've been reading bl/shipping m/m characters in anime, tv shows, and games since I was in middle school 20 years ago. I enjoy bl because, beyond the fantastic storytelling and opportunities to see multi-dimensional male characters who fight with their feelings, I have personal insecurities and reading or watching too much m/f makes me think about m......   reply

I'm bored, let's unlearn shame.   1 reply

if you dont *want* to be a fujoshi then you dont have to be. its up to you to put the label on yourself, and if you dont want to be labelled as one, then you arent one. i myself am like you and barely ever interact with non bl media, but i dont label myself as a fujo because i dont view myself as one; i just simply like reading bl   reply

don't put the label on yourself then? it's not necessarily   reply

Man who tf cares read whatever u want and label yourself however you want, fujoshies are literally the ones who makes ur gay porn I see no point as seeing the term as bad just because some mfs on tiktok said so, you can't hate fujoshi ppl then go around and read bl, they made the genre, sooo I don't see the point in hating the label, also ur intere......   1 reply

i feel you. I feel bad I'm not tapped into other forms of fiction like I am BL. I don't even necessarily prefer good BL over mindless repetitive BL they give me the same happiness. Its hard but find other fujofriends to enjoy the hobby with   1 reply

I’ve been reading yaoi for five ish years and I still dont concider myself a fujoshi cause I don’t care for that term. You don’t have to label yourself as one if u don’t wanna, theres no law that says you have to call urself a fujoshi if u read yaoi   1 reply

I mean, if it isn't affecting you or anyone else, I don't see what's wrong about reading BL. Some people read mostly crime mysteries, some read only self help books, some read only superhero comics, it's fine, they're all formulaic, it's whatever. I guess people will judge it differently because whoa, yaoi has sex in it, oh noooo lol Sex is a part ......   reply