Outcasted

I see so many different takes on this.
Like I thought it was for women who are shut- ins that think all men are shallow.
But I’ve also seen the side of femcels being shut-ins that hate other women and also blame women for their bad success with men. Or lesbian femcels that basically hate women exactly in the way incels do (which seems very crazy to me as a lesbian)
Idk there’s also a broader group of self identified femcels that just hate men in general for a lot of (very deserved sometimes) reasons and also happen to be shut-ins.

Also there’s the idea of incels and femcels often going hand and hand with the alt right pipeline.

So we were 3 ppl me nad my 2 friends lets call them A and B. Last year we were all going out togather talking about everything etc. But this year after july they r cutting me off like no reason i am still me there isnt any change on me. There is a change in A like ahe call B everyday so they got closer amd now they r going out without me sharing everything with eachother and me later. i wanna let them go but i care about them so much that it hurts. So what shoul i do about it? Let them go or act like i donr care about their unknown going outs?