Ending Friendships

Why are some people high key delusional when it comes to ships. Like 2 ngas will be eating together and people will say they’re in love I also think it has something to do with fetishizing gay people cuz wtf are y’all seeing in these ships. An example is gojo and geto, itadori and megumi or levi and Erwin.
I don’t play genshin but I’ve also heard of people shipping 2 random ass dudes. Like they’ll do common things that friends do and people will ship. I mean everyone is entitled to their own opinion and u can ship what u want but I can also judge what u ship. So some of y’all don’t be mad and unclench. Again PLZ DONT ATTACK ME

ı am actually a bi and my friends dont kknow about it. ı actually tried to tell them ones because they speak like ''you know ı am hetero but ı respect the lgbtq community and stuff'' or '' I wish ı am gay but ı am not'' and stuffs like that so once ı told my friend like ''you know ı have a friend and she is gay she has a girlfriend. and she told me ''well how are you feel about it are you ok? . are there any specific times that she touch you or doing something sexual to you and you didnt notice ?'' and I acutlaly become shock and disgust by it ?? Like ı can never tell them because they actually dont respect and being homophobic ? what do you guys think ? am ı being overreacted ?? (〜￣△￣)〜