Maybe be honest and tell them how you feel. Friends should be understanding and try their best to make sure that everyone is feeling included and cared about. See what they say/how they respond and that should help you decide if you feel like a friendship with them is worth working on or if you no longer feel that way.   1 reply
23 06,2020
Chiki
23 06,2020
so, i isolated myself from a group of friends. they're really good people, and i don't exactly dislike them, but i feel like shit and start having second thoughts whenever i spend time with them. i feel like i'm ignored but i know that's not true because what i say in the groupchat doesn't make sense to them or they just don't know what to say; and i feel really crappy whenever that happens. i don't feel a connection anymore and i just kinda drifted away. what do i do? i really don't know anymore and it's making me confused and bedridden. i feel like i'm just being overdramatic but then again it's been going on for a while. i haven't talked to them in a few months now.
23 06,2020
nana
26 04,2020
I don't think you should cut ties. Honestly, as you said, it's very normal for people to respond less as you run out of things to say or as you get busier. I'm sure she's just caught up with other things, and not just ignoring you because she doesn't like you or something. And some people are naturally not as social as others so there's no need to ......   reply
26 04,2020
Minmi 15 04,2020
I was exactly in the same situation like three days ago lol - that's funny cause I am in France, my friend and I are in the same university and the third year is abroad. Anyway, my friend was treating me the same way. Long story short we talked about it over the phone and it feels better now. I think that you don't need to see each other irl. You......   1 reply
15 04,2020
Reinhardt
15 04,2020
Hi, i might sound harsh (i hope not) and im stating the things based on my experience. You dont need to cut ties, since there's nothing to cut to begin with. In this statement, im refering on how i dont put expectation towards anything. Ppl will come and go and those who put in effort are the ones who will stay. If you alrdy talked once or thric......   1 reply
15 04,2020
Seço 09 04,2020
You said cutting of ties is weird since you guys helped each other a lot and that you already brought it up once, I think cutting of ties is not a great solution as well, you can regret it later. You should try to talk to her until it’s ok cause if not you’ll continue to feel sad and I think if you are clear enough she will understand that you�......   1 reply
09 04,2020
What should I do ? [Question]
Sora
09 04,2020
Hi!
So I have a really good friend with who I talked about very personal and deep things. We talked a lot with each other, we're in the same university, and were really close. We met in september and she's leaving France for one year because our third year is abroad, she's one year ahead of me.
The thing is that since like 4 months we're less talking than before but it's normal I guess that at some point you have to slow down because you've already talked about a lot of things. So she doesn't answer my text for like one day even though I know that she's active and stuff like these. It's really frustrating because I feeli like I like her more than she does. I never resented her for not replying quickly, I totally understand the problem isn't there.
It's more that since she doesn't show me that she want to talk with me it's making me feel sad and I have less confidence in myself :/

So I was wondering if, according to you, it would be better to just stop messaging her, like, not stop answering but stop starting a conversation because if I'm always the one making the first step then it's meaningless. Or should I just continue ? Because when we're talking together it's really cool.

That's a hard choice to make for me because she really helped me a lot when I was in trouble and so did I so cutting of ties with her sounds weird but at the same time she's really making me feel sad :/ I already talked of it with her one time and in the end we didn't have time to see each other to talk in real life so she kinda forgot and we didn't go deeper and I don't want to suddenly bring that up. And since both of us are in isolation I'm probably not gonna see her before next year so I just don't know what to do...
09 04,2020
yumeeyu 14 07,2019
I know it's a really late answer, but I really want to reply to this I think the same as you, thinking that it's the best for us to go to separate ways At first, I felt sad that they kind of distancing themselves, and they kept ending our chat when usually/before we still can carry on to another topics. After that I tried to start a chat a few t......   reply
14 07,2019
Ending a friendship [Question]
b2uty_senpai
27 06,2019
I’m currently not talking with a friend as we had a dilemma happen. It almost feels like our friendship will eventually break and I don’t know how I’ll deal with it. At the same time, I think it would be the best for the both of us to go our separate ways. For any of you reading this, did you ever go through an experience of having to break off a friendship because of something? And if that happened, how’d you deal with it? Do you think it was a good decision?
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