I mean no offense by this question and am just generally curious about what you guys have to say. I have just seen a few people online claiming that they’re asexual because they aren’t attracted to people sexually but still enjoy sex and to me it seems like it defeats the purpose of being asexual. I get if you’re asexual and can still have sex, but so long as you get pleasure from sex doesn’t that mean you’re not asexual?
well, i agree with you on the last part. having sex as an asexual and enjoying it kind of defeats the purpose of calling yourself an asexual, someone who doesn't like sex or doesn't get attracted sexually. 1 reply
