Am I straight, pan, or asexual?

Is it weird if I am straight when it comes to sex but pan when it comes actually love? I don't care what gender when it comes to dating but if having sex I just want to dick... And I don't even like sex that much. say if I'm your lover, and you don't have a d, and I say, 'hey you don't have a d, can we just love each other without having sex?' are you still with me or 'nah, you dick lover bitch. Just go and find your d' or you have another answer?

And if you have same case as me, are you fine if your partner go around fuck with someone else cause you can not pleases them? I think is fine as long they love me right? Or I just being dumb?

Feel free to roast me if you find this question weird af lolololol.