If you're a character in a yaoi manga, would you rather be an uke or a seme?

totes an uke, I like my cuddles and being cared for; but my seme would have to be a doting/romantic type, because I don't play that sadistic, possessive stuff. try and tell ME what I can and can't do, I will fight you (╯°Д °)╯╧╧   reply