When looking at two (real)men together I almost immediately think about which one will top or bottom. I know that it's not right and I think about other things like which food I'll eat to stop that thought immediately but I'm so disappointed at myself for even thinking that because I know that people are not things that I assign roles to. Any useful advice to stop these kinds of thoughts?
Just remind yourself that these are real people with real feelings and stop reducing them to their position in bed.
I don't think you'd like it if someone saw you with your friends and began fantasizing about who's fucking who. reply
