Well you see, I'm pretty open about my kinks and fetishes and stuff with some of my close friends but this one time I told one of my friends and she told me that "I should be ashamed of them, and never talk about them. I should NEVER ask a man to do things like that" Now your thinking "Bms or s and m" But it was just teasing, Foreplay, stuff like that. Should I be ashamed? If you SO asked you to do that, would you?
Don't be ashamed. We all have them. We just don't share them with everyone cuz yknow not everyone feels comfortable hearing about it. The way she said it has everything to do with her perspective, not with yours. reply