What do you call it? Wanting all the benefits out of a relationship but none of the commitment?

I'm fine with meeting new people and I love spoiling and being spoiled in a friendship. The understanding of being hoes for one another and the likes. The hate talk and the dirty talk. The commitment tho? Not so much. I mean, I can't always be there and I can't always be the first one to reach out. 9/10 Times this bitch (myself) will dissapear and then come back to life a month later. And I mean it's not like I was ignoring you. I was just fixing my goddamn weavE-

I'm opening a non-committal simping buddies application ╮(￣▽￣)╭