Rape Culture/Feminimity/Masculinity in BL/GL genre.

Guys wdyt about rape culture and feminim/masculine traits ini yaoi/yuri story?
*idk about sex culture in yuri, but i want to know what's my fellow / someone opinion.
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I myself expect slash genre is like "love is not something u can pay with gender or ur body charactheristic, but honesty." But until these days i see this traits still lingering and populer, esp rape culture in Japanese manga.

Hontou ni arigatou guys. (⌒▽⌒)