a question

sometimes on internet i see very possessive posts like 'mark your territory by marking ur gf'- in reference to REAL people- and stuff and i find it pretty sad (because its a bit awkward lol)
i mean if they like it, that's okay but for me i feel unsettled.
and it makes me wonder, what do you guys think?

in fiction and real life (or one or the other) what types of romantic AND platonic relationships do you see as an ideal?
Do you like the hardcore ones? The soft uwu relationships? The controlling ones? The wild kinds of relationships?

For me personally for platonic relationships I like for them to be fun and adventurous with people being able to be open, and for romantic im not really a fan of possessive relationships because i don't like control. I like openness and comfortable relations.

But in fiction I love rivals to lovers and enemies to lovers stories a lot; and actually in fiction i don't really mind what kind of relationship it is as long as its not abusive. And if it is abusive i just pray that the character will be able to escape at some point.

WBU? (๑•ㅂ•)و✧