Hatred and Infatuation

Sometimes I wonder if hatred and infatuation/lust have more in common than i originally thought. Both require you to be overly concerned about a person.
But with hatred, your concern for a person is very negative and destructive.
Whilst with infatuation your concern for a person can be many things depending on the way you love; but hopefully its more positive!
At the root of both obsession is strong.

ok thats all i had to say