cis females liking gay sex and men is ok

pls dont respond if ur negative
let ppl like wut they like

so I recently responded to someone who was basically arguing that cis females being attracted to gay men is not ok
then proceeded to argue that just how 'we' disagree with men being attracted to lesbians and bi girls and that we should disagree with liking gay men also

they assume that all females disagree with men liking lesbians
um I dont?

as someone bi I like both genders and I am pretty poly
yes I might be with too many ppl but im not tied down
I live my life for myself not to find one random person

if I like two men and the two men like each other
wut is wrong with finding it attractive
like I appreciate that we like the same thing and find it attractive

and you might say but they are gay so no no
ive had sex with dudes who were gay and just wanted sex tho?

im also seriously done with someone who responded this is about yaoi only to someone who mentioned if the ppl against fujoshi liking yaoi were any different from guys like yuri
seriously?

final thought
if someone finds something about another person they find attractive
how r u going to tell them they r wrong and force to stop?
isnt the lgbtq+ about letting ppl like wut they like?
im part of it and I sure hope it still is
shame on those who dont