shitty debate: from you to me

idk if its because its 1am and I'm lowkey stupid but ive just got a question

i feel like in some mangas/animes, people will be like "hey why are the villains, fat, ugly, and gross? stop demonizing people who are overweight" or smth but like... when the villains are slightly attractive, yall go straight to them.(obviously not talking ab when the characters are made to seem as likeable characters)

idk if its cuz they're bad boys or smth but uhh whatever. also im not talking about chrollo or some other harmless villain,,, bc in all honesty i liked tamura from parasyte AND illumi from hxh soo yk

im talking about the ones who simp for hisoka, sangwoo, or any other obviously borderline insane antagonist. like its definitely ok to like his fighting style or like that he's handsome, i kinda get that(in the greed island arc i kinda liked that he was a teammate and sorta like a dad figure for gon and killua lol sorry) but the ones who excuse his actions towards what hes actually done towards gon and killua???

like even before the greed island dogdeball fight, hisoka literally looked at gon and killuas asses and yall will excuse the fuck outta that... the way ive seen 3 people this week say hisoka isnt a pedo is......unsatisfactory

uhhh dont mind me, i probably left something out cuz im tired as hell rn.... anyway gn yall