Ok so was anyone gonna tell me this or was I just supposed to find out by myself?

Did y’all know that crushes are supposed to be people that you want to date? I just thought they were people who you liked talking to and looking at. I thought that everyone else thought this too, like I know you can date your crushes but I didn’t know that crushes HAVE to be people that you want to date. Have I been doing this crush thing all wrong then? Like I’ve had a lot of crushes but I would never want to date most of them or anything. I just thought they were nice to be around? Am I the one who’s doing this wrong?