So I've been wondering is calling someone (irl) an uke or a seme that bad? I know a lot of people are against labeling (role?) as everyone can do whatever they want but IS IT THAT BAD?
I'm not particular against it but I wouldn't ask about it either...just a very weird question to ask (for me)
Idk, man. But for me and my boyfriend it's an awkward question because people tend to think that uke=the girl and seme=the boy in the relationship. Like, stop imposing your heteroshit on us homos, dude. reply
